Moving to the Netherlands with Children: What You Need to Know First

Relocating to a new country is exciting, but when you're moving with children, it comes with a completely different set of questions.

Which school should they go to?

Will they adjust?

Will they feel happy and confident?

If you're feeling unsure where to start, you're not alone. For many expat families, the education system is one of the most overwhelming parts of moving to the Netherlands.

It's not just a single decision.

One of the biggest surprises for families is that choosing a school isn't a single decision, it's a series of connected ones.

Do you choose a Dutch school or an international school?

Which city will you move in?

When should you start the application process?

Each choice affects the others. And without a clear starting point, it can quickly feel like everything is happening at once.

Understanding your options (without overcomplicating it)

Generally, most families consider two main paths.

Dutch schools follow the national curriculum and are primarily taught in Dutch. They can be a great option for families planning to stay long-term, especially for younger children who tend to pick up the language more quickly.

International schools, on the other hand, offer English-taught education and internationally recognized curricula. These are often chosen by families who may relocate again or want more continuity on their child's education.

There's isn't one "better" option, it depends on your child, your timeline, and what kind of transition you're hoping for.

What many families don't expect

Beyond academics, there are a few realities that often sneak up and catch families off-guard.

Availability can vary depending on the city and the age group. Some schools have waiting lists, especially in the more international areas.

The teaching style may also feel different from what your child is used to. Dutch and international schools alike often place value on independence, participation, and critical thinking.

And more importantly, adjustment takes time. Even in the best environments, it's normal for children to need a period of transition.

You don't have to figure everything out at once.

It's easy to feel like to need to make the "right" decision immediately. But in reality, this process is about understanding what works best for your family, not rushing into a perfect choice.

Starting with the right questions about your child, your plans, and your priorities, can make everything feel more manageable.

In the end, this isn't about choosing a school. It's about helping your child and family feel settled, supported, and confident in a completely new environment.

If you're unsure about where to begin, we help expat families navigate school choices, city decisions, and next steps. Feel free to contact us, and we'd be happy to help out.